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writes:Hi,I have had a bad experience in my long term relationship, right before breaking up i met someone else that where very nice, sweet and seemed genuine, i at the was depressed and in a very bad emotional state, i eventually fell for her after my break up and was messed about by that girl as all she was after was sex.I seem to be affected emotionally by it althought it lasted only for a handfull of weeks.My question is : Why am i so affected by it? and why can i not seem to get over it.Im pretty certain i do not want her as my girlfriend and i dont want to have anything to do with her.I did trust her at the time and she has left me down big time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Well I didn't know that people could be so mean....just forget about her...its nothing to be stressing yourself about...do not let this one girl diminish your trust for everyone that will come along in your future. You live and you learn. Just try not to be so vulnerable next time..she probably saw that as an oppurtunity to play with your feelings...a lot of people do it... they can be very manipulative... I know because I was just let down by someone I thought that I could trust but...you just have to learn how to be strong and let go of those people. You will be okay(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Well I didn't know that people could be so mean....just forget about her...its nothing to be stressing yourself about...do not let this one girl diminish your trust for everyone that will come along in your future. You live and you learn. Just try not to be so vulnerable next time..she probably saw that as an oppurtunity to play with your feelings...a lot of people do it... they can be very manipulative... I know because I was just let down by someone I thought that I could trust but...you just have to learn how to be strong and let go of those people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Hey,
I know what you mean but i do feel somewhat jaleous that she she is so nice to everyone and when it comes to me she always speaks stupid or in a very sarcastic way.
I´m still stunned by her ability to be so convincing and so belivable and i have been let down by her big time!
Thats the main reason i think that i cant get over it! as to let her go well maby i phrased wrong, she can do what she likes i really dont to be in her life in any ways.
My fear is if i meet someone like her again and get played again!!!!
There is no trust anymore in people!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Im sorry but you are contradicting yourself the whole time that you explain your situation..I don't want to sound mean but....if you didn't have any feelings for her you would not be so down about this...you were vunerable at the time..and maybe that is why you felt good in her company...but if you were sure that you really didn't want this girl in your life then you would be able to just let her go...it sounds like you are in denial of your feelings..but sometimes you just have to learn how to accept the things in life that happen to you..it makes you stronger.(:
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