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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months now and we’ve started getting intimate. We’ve both been tested for STIs before we even took our clothes off- not that we don’t trust each other, but better safe than sorry. Needless to say we’ve both tested negative for any lurgies. We’ve both decided that we wanted to have sex with no condoms, and we are both really turned on by me ‘finishing’ inside if him. But here lies the problem. During sex I am absolutely turned on and love ever second of it. However I can’t seem to reach that climax whilst being inside of him. In my past relationship we didn’t do this, so it never really became an issue.I really want to be able to ejaculate inside of him, but can’t seem to manage it. When I decide to ‘give up’, I can, without fail, ejaculate with me masterbating on him, but I really want to be able to do this during sex. Any advice? TIA x
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reader, Aunty Babbit +, writes (4 September 2020):
 I think this problem is a psychological one, I think Aunty Honeypies's suggestion of trying penetration with condoms first is an excellent one.
If that works then you can move forward as and when you're ready too.
If you're still having problems then it might be worth finding a couples therapist who specialises in sexual counselling who can help you unravel the reasons behind the problem you're having.
I hope this helps ABx
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (19 June 2020):
 Start by using condoms. If that works, go from there. There really are no magic way to "make you" ejaculate.
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