Can you make a summer romance work?

A male , anonymous writes:

I have just got back from a lads holiday in magaluf, im 24 and have been single for 7months, I wasnt looking for anything with anyone but when on holiday we met a group of girls and a guy, we all clicked and spent the majority of our holiday together, it quickly become apparant myself and one of the girls who is 23 had a ton in common and we would always double up to drink, play games and tag along with. At the time I didnt see it because there was so much going on, but by the 5th night of 7 we ended up going home together, the chemistry was immense and we were kissing and really close, then when it got to the bedroom she dropped the bombshell she was in a relationship and couldnt bring herself to cheat, she went on to tell me all about the guy and how bad he treats her, he has cheated on her multiple times and that she cant leave him because shes insecure about herself and being alone. I didnt press the issue and we just cuddled and chatted till we fell asleep, this happened for the next 2nights, no sex but lots of kissing. It was on the last day when we spent the whole day together I realised I hadnt felt the way I do about anyone in a long time, since my 1st real love. Since being home we have kept in touch and shes coming with all her group to ours next weekend for a party, they live about 180miles away which is one of my worries, the other is since she has been back she found out her bloke has cheated again and she asked him to move out and split up, she often says things like your amazing to me and i wish we lived closer, can it work, is it just a summer romance, has anyone been through similar, how do you make it work? Thanks Luke

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