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anonymous
writes:(moderators note: please write proper English and not slang, avoid "n" and "coz" etc. Details are also edited out) Me and my ex mess about a bit. I tell him my dreams and fantasies about him, we dirty talk and feel each other up. We're both virgins, I understand its a joke and fun. He doesn't share the same feelings I have for him, I understand. Im not expecting him to like me because we're flirting, we just enjoy it. He isn't always sure because he would never want to use me, he respects me but i make sure he knows he's not using me. I can't resist flirting with him, his touch makes me feel confident, sexy, attractive. I've never kissed a boy so this feeling up is all I've done.When were alone my ex doesn’t really touch me I also go for it, but when we are around other his hands are on me, as if he likes sneaky touches.When feeling each other up I don't feel uncomfortable, does that make me a whore? I know it will not lead to sex as I know I don’t want sex now just a bit of fun, and I can't see him wanting sex with me.I want to know can you feel someone up even if you dont find them attractive, or do you only need to find their body attractive to feel them up and is it wrong to do what Im doing? Advice much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): hes using you, he enjoys feeling you up, but i dont think theres any emotions behind his actions. Just be carefull before you fall for him then fall flat on your face when he doesnt want that. Its fine to have a bit of fun with him but if your intentions are for more he wont want it. he is using you and if it carries on you will end up getting hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): Hmm, it's of course theoretically posible to feel anyone up.
But you are being stupid, you will fall for him and when he moves on you'll be upset.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): I have to say reading this question, I feel about 100. What happened to kissing? Why are the younger generation, feeling each other up, before they are even kissing?
To answer you question, to be honest I have a question to answer it. Why would anyone want to feel someone up that they didn't find attractive? Plus why are you feeling up your ex?
Did I mention what happened to kissing?
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