New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Can you block someone out of your memory?

Tagged as: Big Questions<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (12 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

is it possible to block someone out of your memory? i heard someone say that they had no memory of a relationship they had! Even though it was a long relationship, she still couldnt remember the things they did together or thier dates! She remembered the guy and knew they went out but only after she bumped into him and they got chatting! is it actually possible to block someone out of your memory? Perhaps hypnosis? thanks alot!!!!!

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007):

Sometimes when people have unpleasant experiences they are able to condition their brains and allow themselves freedom from the memory of it. It is not erased just simply lying dorment. Some people can go to therapy to help them achieve putting things to the 'back of the mind' so that it is less disruptive in their everyday lives - this also works in reversal and those in denial can have their brains 'picked' to unleash those supressed memories.

Some people however are just forgetful, perhaps the relationship was so insignificant to her that the memories are very few and far between. I couldnt tell you all of the details of my previous relationships, only those that have stuck in my mind.

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

If you refer to have a person completely vanished away from your memory, there is a movie in which they explan how this is done by eradicating the emotional nucelous from each memory. And it's fictional. Thinking logical about it, how could this be possible when each and person can be associated with so many circumstances and other persons[.] Why do you ask? Perhaps if you regret having known/met a certain person, you can try and remember the positive part, and if it's shadowed upon by the rest maybe see it as a learning process of what is to be avoided?

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Can you block someone out of your memory?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156451000000288!