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writes: my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years. he has been in the army for 1 year and is currently serving in northern ireland. the distance has put a alot of pressure on our relationship and we argue most of the time. we still love eachother but now has come to make or break time. we want to make it work but we just dont have any ideas on how to start again and start enjoying each others company. we dont really have anything to say to eachother as we end up falling out. what can we do to start fresh and move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): start again, pretend u have just met eachother and start again learning things about eachother. that should get the conversation started.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (27 May 2006):
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Well this is certainly the time for you to decide to make or break you are completely right there, as constant arguements are enough to drive anyone crackers... firstly i agree the distance thing does not help but he's in the army that can't be helped so truely i would sit down sweetie and do some real soul searchin is this guy mr right does he rock your world do you actually love him with all your heart and soul if the answer to those questions is yes then babe stick at it and make it work if your truely in love with each other you can work through anything... but on the other hand if this is not true love and you feel deep down your not to fussed what happens and you just wanna stop argueing then babe bite the bullet move on, find someone without the distance thing and someone who you can talk to and have fun with again... ok put yourself first if your not truely happy its time to move on babe life is to short to stay in a relationship where your not happy ok be true to your self follow your heart it will tell you which is the correct path to follow
i hope this helps a little and good luck with your decision let me know how things work out ok
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