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*urious79
writes:Is it normal when my boyfriend and i have sex i cani feel him past my bellybutton. It is really painfull . can he puncture something ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2013):
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http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/treatment/ovarianepithelial/Patient/page1
Look at the sideways charts. Hint: the cervix is not meant to be entered by a penis. Anything deep enough to hit that will hurt.
Pain is natures way to tell you to stop doing what you are doing.
Sex should be about shared pleasure not about having your gut pounded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2013): During a moment of intense passion and high arousal, your partner is not being considerate. Judging from your age given, he experienced and fully aware of what he is doing; and taking no personal responsibility for your comfort and physical well-being. His desire to "go-deep" is selfish, and there is no particular position you can try; if his pleasure comes from being too rough with you.When sex becomes too rough or painful for you, STOP immediately! This will teach him to think with both heads during sex. You should try different positions that allow you more control over the depth of penetration during moments of high arousal and sexual excitement. You may also wrap your hand (with a little lube) at the base of his penis to regulate depth of penetration and to give him the sensation of going extra deep. All women can't "take it to the hilt" without pain; and they shouldn't be forced to.However; your partner must take personal responsibility for making sure you are safe, and enjoying equal pleasure from intercourse. He can cause you injury!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 May 2013):
 He could be hitting your cervix, which means he's going too deep. To me it feels like being punched in the bottom of my stomach, kind of nauseating. You should try other positions that don't allow him to go so deep, like for you to get on top to control the depth, spooning, etc... Don't do anything that hurts, let the pain be your guide. If he's doing something that hurts, stop doing it and try something else.
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