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writes:So, last semester I dated a guy for about 3 months, with a small break in the middle where he dumped me then decided to get back together just 2-3 weeks later. I liked him a lot and I know he liked me as well but our summer breaks from university are rather long, and since we hadn't been dating that long and weren't really "official" yet, we decided to not date over the summer. We kept in touch, though, and I could tell how much he genuinely cared about me. Well, school is back in again and now that I'm back here I'm realizing I'm really just not over him - I must have like him way more than he liked me and I miss him like crazy. He asked to hang out with me a few days ago, so we did and just talked, and it was really nice. We both had a good time, and he said he misses me, and in the past, it has taken some pushing on my part to get him to admit how he really feels. Should I try to see him again or should I just let this go? I've not let how I feel hold me back from other guys - after all, I'm really not dating this one, but part of me is holding out that maybe he'll want to be with me again.I sound stupid. I feel like the answers will be really obvious, but can you give me some advice anyway? Tell me something to dissuade me from thinking about him anymore :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): Oh i'm sorry i didnt realize you wanted to not go back to him but i personally still think you should give it another shot and if it doesnt work its not meant to be. Rememeber "everything happens for a reason" even if you sometimes have to create your own path, just follow your heart and see where it takes you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): Go for it!! You guys hung out and had a good time so you might as well see if it can go anywhere especially if you still have feelings for him. One thing I can tell you from experience is that if you wait too long your gonna lose him and it will be a while until you get over him and you will really really regret not taking that chance. Whats to lose? Go for it!
Hope everything works out!!
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