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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have no relationship with my mom at all. My mom had me when she was very young and my grandmother raised me basically from 3 days old. But now I am grown up and settled down and want to start a family of my own. My mother lives on the other side of the world from me with her husband (whom I have never met) and my two younger sisters. The thing is that when she used to call me, sh would ask for money! I would scream at her on the phone so she stopped calling. I told her that I would appreciate a call JUST to say HI! We have not spoken for years. I think she is a selfish person because she never made an effort to get to know me at all. But I need a mom. My grandmother is so old and not well at all and if I lose her I really will have no-one. Can this relationship be fixed? My own mom doesn't even remember my birthday and we don't have each others contact details. Should I just leave it this way??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): a good relationship with your mum is one of the best things in life so you should try to make an effort. you are the victim here from your mother abandoning you so the pace you go at is totally up to you but screaming down the phone isnt going to help, it will just upset you more. take things slowly, try calling and get to know her. be patient though, you arnt going to suddenly become mother and daughter again and good luck x
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