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writes:I've been dating this girl for two years and living with her for one. And ever sinced we moved in everything has kinda been going down hill. During the first week of the moving process she loan a friend her cell and that person came up to me and showed me naked pictures to another guy and I confronted her and tried to end everything but she convinced me it was an accident and that they were for me. Then everything was calm until I got an awesome paying night job and she started going out at night with friends and she met a guy and they all started hanging out with him. She then always went over there and convinced me that they were just friends and this started making angry and then I ran across a message I found and it was her friend telling her to hurry up cause she was tired of being in the living room by herself and she was with him in his room. I confronted her again and she once again convinced me they were just talking and that her other friend was being awkward or something. And then everything started getting better well recently I got in a bad wreck and it caused me to be off for two weeks and she wanted to walk the dogs and I was all drugged up so she went by herself. I woke up and she still was gone I tried to call her and she didn't awnser so I was thinking she might be in trouble so I got up and drove around and she finally answered her phone and end up walking all the way to this guys work to hang out with him and then she told me that she would have told me but didn't want me to get mad. So every night I'm at work she could be lying about everything. And I love her and she says she loves me but ever since this guy came in the picture everything feels dead and the only reason I'm around is because of security what should I do?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 June 2010):
 Oooo sounds pretty suspicious to me! Do you think she's doing anything at your house? Because if so then you can set up something to catch her. Like go to work and then come home early or set up a hidden video camera.
I personally think that your gut instincts are usually spot on and if it smells bad it probably is.
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reader, jchez03 +, writes (7 June 2010):
She met a guy? Why is your girlfriend even meeting guys in the first place let alone hanging out with him. Im sorry but thats ridiculous and not acceptable. If she knows this bothers you then she should respect you and not ever see or talk to him again- if she really loved u- its not like he is a friend from high school, she met him at a bar!! Im mad just thinking about this. Unless she is a complete moron, Sorry but there is no way she sent naked pictures on accident to another guy. They were just talking in the room..your gf in the room with another guy and your not even there? Even if they didnt hook up that is so messed up. A relationship cant work if there is no trust, i dont trust her and i know u dont either. Im pretty sure your fears are true sorry man, leave her. Dont worry you can get other girls, u got her so u can get more!
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