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*uddlymonkey44
writes:I really like this guy called gav! we were together for a month,and then he finished with me, and to be quite honest im not sure why, we was talking the othere night and he said he loved me he just wasnt sure how much and so im a bit like okay what now, then the day after he asked if i was going out and i went out and we got really close, kising cuddling sitting with each other and now hes really 'off' with me and im confused! i dont know what too do. . . i really like him and its making me ill, ive stopped eatting and i feel really depressed. please help me x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): You shouldnt jump to conclusions but.. its quite possible he tells you this just to have sex with you. If youre not putting out then he becomes "cold". This certainly may not be true but its a possibility.
Youre still young, and maybe he just isnt sure yet and doesnt want to jump into it. Either way, dont be suckered into the sex thing - it will only lead you down worse paths.
I know how you feel - depressed and no appetite, but just try and remember you'll find a guy soon enough, maybe this one will come around, but if not you - you do always have youre friends. good luck!
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reader, girl (:  +, writes (7 June 2010):
im just going to be blunt with you.. mybe your just his booty call? dont let your self. i know its hard for you cause you really like him. but play hard to get,once your cold with him he will notice that what had was great. & at the end he will end up asking for the old you.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 June 2010):
 The best thing you could do here is live life to the fullest without worrying what he's up to. If he sees you looking confident, having a great time with your mates and looking happy with yourself it'll make you irrestible to him. Don't ask me why that works but it seems to. So make plans with your friends dress up to the max and have a really good time. He'll start to realise what he's missing out on pretty quickly.
I hope this makes sense. I urge you not to lie around waiting for him to come round get out there and make your life your own. Good luck doll.
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