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writes: I want to change. I want to look european, but I have hard times looking european. I'm from Ukraine and it's just really hard to change my style so everybody will like me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): you dont need to change to fit in, you are who you are, people should accept you for who you are, you dont need to change a thing!
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (11 August 2006):
 Whoa! Stop it right now.I know this may not seem to be the easiest option, but further down the road TRUST ME, it'll help.Now if yoouu wanted to change your appearance, that'd be one thing, but don't do it in hopes people would like you. That's not the way to go through life. If so, you'll always be paranoid that any changes you happen to make will cause you a downfall with popularity, which by the way, isn't everything.Are you still in school? Because take it from me (I'm about to go into my junior year) you'll be able to survive if you are just yourself. You'll make true friends that way. So, changing SOULT for others is something I want to tell you now, is a HUGE mistake. Don't do it! More people in the world need to learn to just be themselves, they'll earn the good friends that way, friends who like you for who you are, not just what fads you follow.But anyway, you said you want to, so I'm going to give you a few tips. Look up the latest European trends of clothing for your age group. Scan around and see what seems to be "the norm" and go just a bit different from it. And for a french flare try a... umm... whatever those things you tie around your neck are called... not scarves.... kinda like bandana's for you neck. lol! I'm so forgetful with names of objects, I'm sorry.
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