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writes:Please help me.my man womt touch me wthout being begged. Each time he gets home, sits to delete messages and numbers before relaxing. Most times when with people all is well,once alone in bedroom picks a fight over anything small and goes to bed angry.when i touch him moves away.when its time to talk shouts at me and my children. This particular day,when talking to kids for correction,startd deleting again. I took phone,said not comfortable because phone was near me. When kids left,checkd phone found he made call late at night. Ask to who,calls kids to ask who done it. Looking at time, he says it was him-blames me for his lack of progress and says am up to somethng. I say he is not fair to me and my kids, says i know who their father is and its not him. Packed his clothes and left saying he is giving space to us.thats what i wanted and been working at!Any one want to help me make sense of what is happening? confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 It seems as though he is trying to find excuses for something. I have a feeling, he isn't being faithful to you. It could explain why he moves away everytime you touch him, it could explani why decides to start random and pointless arguments when you two are alone because he no longer feels comfortable with you.
No matter what the reason is, I want you to prepare for the worst. Hope that all this will go away but expect to be heartbroken soon. With the way things are going now, I think it best that you spend some time away from him, see how things go.
I hope that helps.
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