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Can anyone help me with some foreplay ideas?

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Question - (16 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2008)
A female Belize age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm usually VERY shy in bed and hardly ever take the lead, and I want to finally surprise my boyfriend.

I'm planning on dressing up in a sexy costume that my boyfriend mentioned he likes ages ago.

I'm going to make him sit in a chair and sort of straddle him. While doing this I am going to take his hands and tie them behind the chair with a scarf or something

After that I plan on doing the whole slow undressing him/oral sex thing, and before he's ready to finish, I'll untie his hands and we can just have sex

What should I add to this to spice it up more? I know this seems very tame but this is all new to me. I'm no virgin, but I am pretty sexually conservative and I want to stop that!

Does that even sound like a good idea at all? Should I come up with a new plan? Add things?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

this is an awesome idea!!! i think you could use whip cream on his penis and then perform oral. that would make it really tasty;) i'm going to try something like that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007):

Sounds great to me. I would leave him tied up and finish the job for him by doing all the work - what a treat!

Have fun and enjoy!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007):

Sounds like a great idea to me, if you boyfriend would like that sort of thing. Most men would love that and you do have good ideas and I would say go for it. Best of luck

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