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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I had a close Male friend and we both had business dealings with each other. I was going through a bad spell in my marriage and I would discuss personal issues with him. He is single. Subsequently our relationship grew. I believe we developed feelings for each other. The realtionship went through a hot and cold phase and finally culminated in a business misunderstanding which caused me to cut off contact with him. We did reconcile but had an uneasy truce. He recently announced that he was leaving the business due to financial reasons but that he would finish all his obligations to me. We did speak with each other and it almost seemed as if everything was returning to normal. But I guess things are never the same. Lately after a very pleasant conversation I called him twice on business issues and he did not return my calls but did call my colleagues back. It seems to me that he is trying to avoid me. So taking the cue when he did call me I did not return his call. I feel we are entering into hostile territory and feel bad that our relationship has come to this. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 March 2010):
In many ways this is a good thing. That sounds a bit mad, but when you're crossing business with personal, things are bound to go wrong. You were using him as an emotional rock rather than really focusing on your marriage, and this could have ended in an affair. Take this moment as the moment to move on from him. If you still have business, be professional. But other than that, move on from this and continue to work on that marriage.
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