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writes:My ex wanted me back and I jumped to it cos I still really liked him.I was really happy but about a week into it it all changed and went back to how it used to be - him making false promises, not seeming interested in me etc, etc. SoI finished it and I also removed him from my Facebook. I didnt do this to be immature but because I cant handle seein him flirt with other women. He is a nice looking lad and gets alot of female attention. But since we split he has been messaging my friends really friendly messages on facebook but he doesnt know them that well!!! Whats worse is that he would never send me messages when we were together but he can happily send people who doesnt really know messages. Why is he doing this? I dont know why he would want to hurt me or wind me up cos I feel that he doesnt like me anymore anyway and probably didnt when we got back together. How can I deal with this?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 Treat it as a lesson or experience in life. Learn from your mistakes and be wiser when you choose your next b/f. Only give your heart to someone who can really value and appreciate you as a person or it would be like throwing pearls to those swines who just step on and crushed them.
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 January 2008):
 I would be inclined to forget about him and move on with your life. Treat it as a chapter in your life that has happened, at look back on it as water under the bridge. Cut contact with him and stop finding him on facebook, the more you track what he is doing the more its going to eat you up. I know it does not feel like it now but things will get easier, time really is the healer of all pain. I assume you are still only young, so pick your self up, dust yourself down and move on. Go out with your mates, have a laugh, let you hair down and forget all about this guy. Sooner or later you will meet another guy that shows you the love and respect that you so rightly deserve, and probably when you least expect it.
All the best x
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