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writes:Me and my girl have been broken up for about 3 months now, and I miss her like crazy, how do I get her back? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lemonpixie +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Without anymore info than that its difficult to answer. HOw did you 2 break up? Who broke up with who? And how long were you 2 together? But most of the time break-up's are for a good reason. Whether you borke up with her or vice versa... Do you miss her? Or just having a gf? Think about these things... because sometimes emotions can fool you.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (2 June 2007):
 The sad thing about any break up is you can rarely force someone to change their mind and find the lost love they had for you. You dont mention much about the circumstances around your break-up, but the fact is the relationship has obvioulsy reached its lowest point.
The best thing you can do is give her the time and space she needs right now, maybe she will re-think the relationship but nothing is ever certain.
Use the time you have to really think about the past weeks/months and re-evaluate your life and what you really want from it. these things are hard enough to deal with but you have to focus on you right now hard as it seems.
Use your family and friends around you to use as a distraction and try and re-build your life and find some kind of happiness again. She will have now left a gap in your life which is going to be hard to fill so do the things that you enjoy to draw the attention away from your thoughts about her.
This always sounds cliched, BUT time is a great healer and you will see things differently as time goes on.
Stay positive and strong and im sure you will get through this difficult time..
R
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): Sweetheart its difficult to no what to say as you havent said why you split up? How long you two were together? e.t.c was it you who finished it or was it her? All i sense is your very sad i would love to give you some help maybe write again with a little more info and ill try to give a helping hand ok hun take care
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (1 June 2007):
 I think to be totally honest the how's why's and wherefores depend on what actually caused the break up in the first place...?
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