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writes:Hi.. Me and my Boyfriend split up march this year after being together for two years. While we were together we went through of lot of upset.He thought it was ok to go out with mates and dance with other girls. Since we split we have been meeting up and having casual sex. There has been a lot of feelings come back up but we have both been too afraid to admit it.A couple of days ago.. we met up after not talking for a while and he has changed so much. He told me he wants to get back with me and i want to get back with him but im worried. What do you think i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): No one can tell you what you should do, that is entirely up to you. If you are broken up, then it is a really bad idea to keep having sex or even talking to each other for that matter, how else are you two going to be able to move on?
I wouldn't get back together though without discussing the reasons for the original break up, there were reasons you two broke up, have things really changed? Is the timing right for you two to be back together or is one of you about to leave to go to school or something like that?
These are just some of the questions I think you could be asking yourself. Otherwise, you are looking at a breakup in the not so distant future.
Good luck
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