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Break up sex, do you tell your significant other?

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Question - (6 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

If your boyfriend (8 months) breaks up with you, and within a week sleeps with someone and then he asks to get back together and you do... Should he be obligated to tell you that he slept with someone on the "break"? Especially if the condom broke?

I'm too emotional at the moment and can't tell what is reasonable and what is not.

He never told me because we were broken up and it wasn't "my business". He only told me because the girl is pregnant and having his kid. Isn't it expected that you tell someone something like this? And yes, I'm getting STD testing done tomorrow.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010):

'Casual sex is harmless and nobody has the right to know about the past'. Nice idea but that's not real life. Real life is messy. It's full of STDs and accidental pregnancies and emotional complications.

This is unpopular to say, but I think you had the right to know.

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