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writes:i am lonely. i haven't had a boyfriend now for just over a year. i think it's because i get called a bloke at school.. and boys are afraid to go out with me because they will get the mickey taken out of them. i have pleanty of friends and they are wonderful to me... but i need someone to love me. i don't know how to help this really. i don't think i am the prettiest person, but boys seem to only like me as a friend.. have you got any suggestions? and i'm 15 years old, nearly 16 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): i'm nearly 20 and have NEVER had a boyfriend. i have great friends, not really pretty either, but i know i have other qualities. they don't seem to really attract anyone though.
it's lonley, yes. specially when everyone around you is in a relationship.
i don't really have any suggestion: if i did... well, maybe i would have been in at least 1 relationship. but what i have to say is this: you've had one experience and you're still very young! when i was your age most of my friends were single and all we did was hangout together and party hard! go shopping, to the movies, have a bbq, pool party...you name it. don't waste time thinking rubbish!
hope it helps
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 You're 16 year old? I got my first girlfriend at age 20. Think that I regret it? NO! Everything just happened by itself too, was awesome, totally loved it.
Well good relationship often starts with a good friendship with someone. (Noticed that on dearcupid actually)
Be yourself, if you want to find someone who will love you for who you are.
Remember: Others see in us what we see in ourselves.
Have confidence, smile, just be nice.
Hope this help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Well your still young.
I am 22 and girls basically only look at me as a friend and never more. I haven't had a girlfriend for 5 years. It is very lonely I will agree. I don't really have relationship experience because of this while many other do.
For one, I don't really think you should be worrying about too much more than friends until you are 18ish or so. Don't go looking for relationships really at your age. There is much more you should be focusing on atm, although that may sound odd and doesn't seem right, but being threw your years already, believe me. If by chance you do meet a boy and you like each other, good, but don't worry about it. Plus most likely a relationship will form out of friendship.
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (4 June 2008):
 i know how you feel i used to i have alot of friends who love me and i love them but i just didnt feel loved withouut a boy but i ahve had relationships sincs then if boys are afraid to go with you because of that they are not seeing what they are losing you shoulod talk to people out of school too i dont go out with that many people in school becasue if you talk to new people you become more socail too so dont wrorry you will find someone soon and until then you should think about yourself and your life donbt wreoory too much about boys
good luck xxxx
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