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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone sorry if this is long i moved in with my boyfriend who i really loved after i almost got attacked in my home i found out i was pregnant but miscarried at 8 weeks then 4 days later my boyfriend split up with me what should i do? He thinks the only reason i moved in with him is because of what happened at my home which is not true also everytime we argued he told me to go back home to the place i nearly got attacked in did he really love me? What should i do we split up 4 days ago and had no contact thank you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2013): Grab your shit and move on OP. He didn't break up with you because of that moving in reason OP, as a boyfriend wanting to protect your partner is part of the territory, it sounds like you have tonnes of problems, arguing etc. and he just doesn't want to be with you anymore.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (16 March 2013):
 He said that?? Many guys who were in love would WANT to protect their girlfriends, and that would never be an issue of contention.
What was the argument about? Was it about the attack, or was it about something else, and he simply started throwing out things to blame it on?
I would guess this has more to do with the miscarriage. Were you and/or he upset or devastated or depressed about it? Was he excited about becoming a father, or quite the opposite?
Sounded like he ended things to avoid emotions, his and yours. If it's been emotionally draining at home, he may want to get away to avoid it.
It's an immature thing to do. You are better off without him.
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reader, LususNaturae +, writes (16 March 2013):
I would thank my lucky stars that it is over. If he loved you he wouldn't be pushing you away. Don't get hung up on why it didn't work, just accept that it didn't and move forward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2013): Honey if any man acted and spoke to me the way you were treated I's throw him out the door. Drop this piece of s^^t and get some professional help. You've been through hell and you need somebody that will not judge you or play God with you. I had similar experience and got help and things worked out in the end. I have now been married five years. Mr. right is out there you don't need this dirt bag. The road to recovery is possible.
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