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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of one year lives 5 hours away. He recently told me about this girl that wanted to date him shortly before we met. They still talk or text several times a week. She recently sent him a message stating all her reasons why they should be together. I suggested he back off from her in case he is giving her mixed messages. He says not to worry about her but still continues to talk, text, and Facebook several times a week. He seems to have a lot of female friends that seem to want to date him. He thinks I am being ridiculous when I tell him it bothers me. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): I can understand that it bothers you, but give him the benifit of the doubt unless he gives you reason not to. This girl wanted to date him before you met, but he chose to be with you and not her.
Talk to him about your feelings, but avoid accusing or blaming. He's probably just the kind of guy that gets on better with women than men so has a lot of female friends.
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