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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 9 months we get on so well but part of me thinks thats because we have a texting relationship. Every time i ask him to come round he always makes some kind of excuse, I know he works some weekends as hes a band premoter what will take up his time, but when he tells me he is free and i ask him to come round for the night he says no. He was ment to come round this weekend but yet again he has baild on me this time saying he is ill, even though i know quite well that he was out drinking with mates last night. Is it me being paranoid or is it that he just dont want to see me? I have spoken to him and he says its not him making excuses. he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me but when it actualy comes down to comeing round and spending time with he he doesnt. He has met my perents and gets on well with them both so i know its not them, Ive not been asked to met his perents and he hasnt even told people that me and him are going out. Is he just taking me for a ride and pissing around, should i call it a day? I just wish i knew what to do please help xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011): How can somebody who's lived in your phone for 9 months be in a relationship with you?
He is not your boyfriend, this is not how boyfriends behave.
Tell him bye,delete his number then get out and live, he's just messing with you. X
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reader, KittieS +, writes (22 October 2011):
 When you do see him do you just have sex, as everything your saying sounds like he sees you as a FWBMove on, I'm sorry but he is just not into you.If he doesn't callIf he doesn't introduce you to his parents/friendsIf he doesn't invite you outIf he doesn't go out of his way to make you happyHe is just not into you, and you need to move on - if he was into you, wanted to be with you he would!My OH before he met me took on a huge amount of things, he works five days a week, he does a part tine course twice a week, he does voluntary work of a morning at the weekend, he sees his friends, he sees his parents - he invites me, but he still finds quality time for me, he calls, he texts, he's there if I'm upset. If I needed him he would drop all of the above - that's what a boyfriend is, im only saying rhis 1. Because i realise every day how very lucky i am, but more importantly 2. Ive been where you are and thought that was it, its not if there into you they make time for you, and wanted to give an example as to how a man acts when he is into you!Good luck lovely there are good ones out there :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 October 2011):
 Talk to him first, tell him a texting relationship is not what you want and see how he responds. You can get closure better when he agrees that you shouldn't be together if you can't be happy.
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