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female
age
30-35,
*reej43
writes:my bf always makes decisions and applies it in our relationship without considering my opinion.at the last time, i shouted at him, cried and had a break.When i talked to him about every thing that upset me, he told me that he was just teaching me how to deal with people and don't let anyone upon me !I really learnt this, but after braking my heart and really I feel like i'm the first and everybody even him are second.And he got upset from that !Am I right?Please, help me !
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (4 June 2011):
 First of all a relationship has two people in it...and two people should be making decisions about their relationship...not one person who is control or applying all THEIR way of doing things to OUR relationship. Get what I mean?
Secondly, I will always maintain that YOU come first...and everyone second....and that is the way it should be. You should not be putting anyone in front of you unless it is your children or a mother or a father and they are hanging off a cliff or something....get the drastic examples here??
This gentleman you are seeing seems extremely controlling....perhaps you should look at if you can be with someone like that.
Think carefully about what you are doing dear...
Best Wishes.
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