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Boyfriend lacks confidence and doesn't believe me! What can do?

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Question - (6 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 17 about to turn 18 soon and me and my boyfriend who i have been dating for about 3 years decided to have sex. the only problem was that i didnt bleed. i've heard that that isnt something to particullary worry about but my boyfriend is hung over about it. he thinks his penis is small. -.- i've tried telling him it's not, cuz it really isnt. it's more than i need really but he doesnt believe me. how do i get him to feel more confident about himself?

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A female reader, BluntLove United States +, writes (7 August 2010):

Show him an article or two that talks about how girls often don't bleed on their first, second or more times. He may not believe you, but if you show him actual medical articles, he'll have a hard time not to. WebMd is a good site. And take it easy for him, he's probably slowly building up his confidence. Make sure you use protection too - which i'm sure you already are.

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A female reader, lockwood11 United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2010):

I didn't bleed when I first had sex either. Next time you have sex, make sweet groaning noises and tel him what you like him doing to you and hell think he's the best in the world

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