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writes:I'm thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because he won't make an effort to see me anymore.He says he hasn't got time to see me because he is studying, but i'm studying too and i would make time to see him!He lives in the same town as me, and our college's aren't far from eachother, but everytime i mention meeting up, he always has some excuse. It's been ages since i last sw him, and i don't think we're going anywhere with this relationship at all.What do you think i should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): sorry to say it but sounds like its time to move on
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reader, C0wgirlFromhell +, writes (14 May 2006):
Hey my bf was doing that and I just dumped him. He doesn't seem to care that I've dumped him...it hurts honey but spare yourself future pain and get it over with. Who knows, maybe he will realize what he had ?
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reader, Muscles +, writes (12 May 2006):
Hello, from what you have written it sounds as if your so called 'boyfriend' is either to afraid too tell you that he 'doesn't want you anymore' and is playing cool and hard to get then eventually you will give up on him...
I have known of mates that have done the same thing to their girlfriends and being unsure about having a long term relationship and have played hard to get then eventually their girlfriends have given up and moved on...
However studying is an important thing he should still make the effort to see you...My sisters boyfriend is studying atm and even tho they don't see each other as much as they usually do in a week its only temporary yet they still see each other quite a lot....And study together...! Ask him over and see if he would like to study at your house or whatever...you can splitit up let him study then do somthing else, kiss cuddle etc etc and thats it....if he says no to that then i'd move on and find someone new!...
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reader, bonym +, writes (11 May 2006):
 My friend, it does not sound very nice to me the way your fella hasnt got the decency to devote some of his precious time for you, how can he say he cant see you because he is studying? My dear if he wont make the effort with you then why are you putting up with this? If he keeps making excuses be bold and dump him. Once you are gone he will soon realise what he is missing, only you can get on with your life and be happy instead of having to put up with his cold and selfish ways. If he truly cared for you my dear he would make the time, no one can be so busy they cant even make time for their partner, thats a lame excuse. All the best. xXx
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