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female
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*icole aye
writes:Hi everybody. I feel so sad, can't stop crying. Me and my boyfriend been together for over three years. On and off. We use to broke up for 8months. I know its long time. He has friend with benefit and I had another bf. Just try to move on. And make long story short we back together for 6 months already. We're still fighting. We have a lot of differences. If I like something he hates it. If he like something I hate it. But we love eachother so much. I can't live without him(I don't know his side). When he left I felt so broken heart. I hate that feeling. Now he wants to leave me again. He want to go to live in New York. He said he found the job with his friend and he will rent the apartment later on and I have to follow him.I don't feel like living in New York cause all my family are here. But for him I will do it but I just can't stand that he gonna go by himself for 5 or 6 months.He said he gonna leave in April. But my heart is already bleeding. I just can't live without him for one day.I don't know how to deal with that feeling.Please help me! How can I let him go? What if he finds someone else in New York? By the way we already have a plan to live in NY next year but he come up with the new plan just today. He gonna leave in April by himself. I don't know how to deal with the feeling. I don't have any friend because of him. He doesn't like my friend so I can't tell anyone my feelings. Only you guys can tell me how I live without him. I am not a strong woman.
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reader, sophisticated08 +, writes (25 February 2011):
 i dont think that you should make this guy your everything... give him some space it could be good for the both of you. i know that you have history with him but right now i think that the both of you need this time apart i mean you said yourself that yall are still aruging and yall just got back together so you two just need some time to heal apart from each other
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