A
female
age
30-35,
*taarshine
writes:Hello All, Ok, so today my boyfriend told me that he doesn't love me anymore and that he is bored of me...while 2 days prior he said i love you,and just the night before was cuddling me in bed.. He was planning on moving in in 2 weeks, and all his stuff has been here for months (he's been "living here" for 2 months now).. today he asked me to come to his place to hlep him pack.. so while were packing, i noticed he became quiet.. i asked what was wrnog.. and he said for the past 4 days he has wanted to break up but didn't know how.. and that he doesn't love me anymore. What do i do? Do i try to save this relationship or move on? this isn't the first time something like this has happened. I believe he has a porn addiction, would this be the reason that he is bored with me? I am so confused.. and don't know what to do, don't know if i should move on. Does he still love me?
View related questions:
broke up, I love you, move on, porn Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, frndz4life  +, writes (9 February 2011):
hii i know how u might be feeling .. but the answer is yes!! you should move on. its no use crying for a guy whose love changes or doesnot care about you. i dont think addiction to porn is the reason, it doesnt decide ur relation. so its obvious he doesnt love you, or to be more specific wasnt ever in love with u. because love doesnt fade away or it isnt the thing you get bored of its not a tv serial.. he was highly infatuated to you.
firstly just sit with him and discuss out matter as in wat was the reason he felt so, wat went wrong.. both of u give urself time to think and analyze matter and then solution..may be u went wrong sumwhere u dnt knw..
even after all this the result is he is just bored then be clear that there was no love .. so just forgive and forget there will be many good opportunities ur way much much better so just let things go if they want to dont keep holding them it would only add to ur pain.. all the best
A
male
reader, soul83  +, writes (9 February 2011):
Quite a predicament. He is addicted to porn? That's not healthy and won't do the relationship any good. I understand you are hurting but you need to realise that while this is happening, you cannot be around him.
You may have to face the reality that it's over to save yourself the humiliation. Try to talk to him about this and explain everything that you are going through. It's bloody well unfair to have soemone move in and act like things are serious between you and then turn around and say hurtful things like they are bored of you. Makes me wonder how into you he was in the first place.
Bare in mind my situation is much worse. Take a look at my questions.
...............................
|
