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Boyfriend and I live like room mates!

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Question - (19 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

why is me and my boyfriend living like roomates instead of a couple i mean the last four months we been fussing alot cause i see a lot of female be texting and calling he has pictures of women in his phone and one of his friends told me he showed him a picture a girl he liked but my boyfriend says im insecure when i say something about his phone and i dont need to worry about these women if he wanted them he wouldnt be living with me i mean we sleep in the same bed he doesnt hold me anymore i wear lingerie he doesnt touch me and our sex life is bad we have sex twice a month he doesnt come on to me i come on to him after trying hundred times he finally gives in and that takes two weeks he said cause we argue all the time he doesnt want to do it he doesnt feel like it i feel like we not even together anymore is this relationship over and he doesnt want to tell me and hurt me can this be fixed?

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2010):

petina1 agony auntHe sounds like his mind is elsewhere. He may just be waiting for someone else to come along as well. If he doesnt want to join in, in the relationship then he may be should be somewhere else instead. Be careful.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010):

sorry to tell u this

men are very simple, we need food sleep and sex

money vars and everything else is secondary

if he isnt already cheating he is looking

i know , ive have been that guy and seen many others

sit down have a heart to heart, get it out and get on

with things or save yourself the heartache and leave

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