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writes: Me and me best friend have been best friends for...about... 8 months now nd were 14 but we are very mature and act about 16 most people say.. lately we have the most pathetic niggles at each other though. we are very very close! and i know it sounds pathetic but i couldnt stand to loose her as she means so much to me. they only last half hour tops til were fine again but we HAVE to stop this as its gettin worse and worse.. please someone tell me what to do, i couldnt stand to loose my baby :( thanks xox
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reader, princess-gold-digger +, writes (5 August 2006):
 It really depends what the arguments are about...i dunno me and a best mate i had tended to argue over silly little things, and they ended up gettin worst due to other so-called friends getting envolved, does it tend to be just you two together or is there another friend envolved? or are either you or your friend getting closer to over friends?
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (5 August 2006):
 Well it is important that you can still voice your own opinions without fear of upsetting your friend.
Maybe she has issues at home or elsewhere, this tends to cause people to lash out at those closest.
Just try to value your friendship and talk about your differences rather than arguing.
We all do it, so don't feel isolated.
best of luck
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (5 August 2006):
 Hey,
I think the reason why you start bickering with each other is either that you have different opions on things or that you are getting so exactly like each-other. Me and my gran work the same way. We are very alike but drive each-other up the wall because of it. I think every time you feel yourself rising and getting fustrated and finding yourself starting to bicker - say to yourself that she's your best friend and quitely count to ten. If you're less wound up, the bickering will stop and the flame of fustration will go out.
Hope this helped,
Phoebe
xxx
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