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female
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30-35,
*teadyphobia
writes:I've been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now, it's been good but I'm tired of having to beg him to do something before he actually does it. This resulted in me cheating on him with guys that are ready to do anything and be adventurous. I told him that I don't like begging him for things like sending me a topless photo of himself or his facebook password but he doesn't what happens when he says NO. I asked him for a break but want him back now, should I tell him I cheated so we start on a clean slate?
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reader, steadyphobia +, writes (13 June 2011):
steadyphobia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI told him everything but he still wants me to meet his family, even though I am not ready, I'll do it; it just makes me feel worse than reading the answers. Thank you for the advice, the best comes from strangers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): That's wrong to beg for things as little as a topless photo or passwords... you may be making him very uncomfortable by carrying on about things...
Do you feel satisfied when you finally make him cave? He just agrees to shut you up... That doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship.
Yes if you do think you want to try again, then you have to be completely honest, because he has a right to know because that's a pretty big thing. He has to really think carefully of whether he can still trust you.
Please learn from this... Cheating is wrong, and it didn't solve anything.
Are you sure that this is really what you want when you were so bored etc after only 6 months?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): I think you should leave him alone and let him find happiness with someone else.Your excuse for cheating is a poor one and the fact that you lay the blame on his doorstep says something about your character. You spread your legs for other men because your boyfriend didn't give you his facebook password or send you a topless photo of himself??You have no right to the password anyway. The only reason you'd want it, that I can think of, is you're afraid he would behave as you have behaved if given the chance. Leave him be. He doesn't deserve you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): honestly would break up with you if I were him and hove nothing to do with you. cheating is low and cowardly, you should have just told him what was bothering you. and what does a fb password have to do with cheating...
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