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writes:We've been together for a year and a half. Recently I descovered he still kept ALL of his ex-gf's pics on his computer. Actually that's not what got to me most, but the fact that after seeing the pics and short video clips (we were looking at pics from his past together), he turned into an extra-good mood. So would you think he's not really over her? Is it normal to keep all pics you had taken with your ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): Thanks guys, much appreciated!!!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): i think it all depends on the person. the last person i dated still had some pics of her ex but that did not really bother me because i knew there were no feelings there anymore. i guess you just need to ask him if he still has any lingering feelings for her or not. some people can be friends with their exes and not have any romantic feelings anymore. some people just keep photos because they want to have it as a memento of part of their past, but it doesn't always mean that there is anything more than that. so you just have to ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): Did you ask him why? some people like to hold on to the memories it reminds them of where they are now and why. I think its good at least he wasn't secretive about them and you went throught them together. Photos bring up memories that will make you smile regardless of how long ago it was or how ever much you've moved on, everyones got a past that occastionally finds itself in our present but the main thing is he's not still there with that person is he. He's sitting with you going through old times, to me that shows a lot, progress in your relationship in that he feels he can do that with you.
I bet he has no idea how its upset you so try talking to him? You've been together a year now so its obviously heading somewhere serious, stick with it and try not to let the past affect your future, theres a reason shes no longer a part of his life and you are! be happy with that and let it go, best of luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): This just show that your bf is a man that treasures his relationships, be it past or present. It can only mean good, as this might be a sign that he is a faithful man. I'm sure its normal btw, i am a guy as well.
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