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51-59,
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writes:My boyfriend and I had a fight over the fone while I was sitting with a friend (who happens to be his friend's wife). After the converstaion, I commented to the lady that it hurts to see us fight the way we do. The next morning my boyfriend was hurt that I discussed our problems with other people. He found out through the woman's husband. When I confronted the woman about it, she tried to deny it. My boyfriend is a very private person and although he has not said anything about it, I am worried I am losing him. I am angry with my friend, even angrier with her husband who in this case was the third person to even begin to spread what I told his wife in confidence. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): I would try to not tell friends of the matters that You know affect him this way.
I had a boyfriend who was like that..he ended up being a mind controlling manipulator...in time I was more concerned for his not being angry with me, his eventually keeping me away from those very friends, cuz he didn't want them to "learn" of him, being I was telling them about our 'crap'. Recgnize your early CRY For help..that's what i was doing telling every one everyting, without even knowing it. The moment one of his friends call him an ass or what have you...RUN RUN RUN, Cuz in the end they know him better than you do, 'his friends' and they'll still have eachother after your gone.
For whatever it's worth.!
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