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female
age
41-50,
*mmu
writes: I am married last month. my husband is not communicating with me. he is just like machine. before marriage he spoken to me hours and hours.but he is interest in sex. i feel only sex is life i feel very bad.he want to consider for each and every movements in his life bcoz now it is our life.even for 10 days he wont be talking to me.but at bedtime he wants sex. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): Say no to him? Tell him you don't like his behaviour lately?
Were you virgins when married? It might be that he's gotten a taste of how great sex is, and that it's gotten to his head. One month into a marriage isn't long, you two need to adjust to each other. Maybe next month he'll start to talk to you again. But I suggest that if you had an open and honest communication with him before marriage, you will still be able to communicate with him. Try it. I dont know if this is normal where you live, but going 10 days without talking to you, specially when you are newlyweds, is a horrible thing to do.
Best of luck!
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