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Been told my ex is really sad and our separation was the hardest decision he'd ever had to make! Could there be a chance for us, still?

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Question - (4 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have recently split up - we were happy up until about a year ago when some of his friends suggested he take up mountain biking - this seemed to completely take over his life and I began to feel resentful about being excluded. We never argued but we didn't talk either. Now we've split up with him saying he doesn't feel the same way about me as before. He's moving his stuff out of the house and has gone to live with his dad.

I saw a mutual friend today who told me that he was really sad and said it was the hardest decision he'd ever had to make.

I have already decided to give him some space and not contact him for at least a month and in the meantime to try and move on with my life - getting fit, decorating the house and seeing friends but this isn't what I want.

Do you think there is any chance of me saving this relationship?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

He is sad, because it is never fun to break up. It really does not matter who initiated it. He is out, because he wants to be out. If he wanted to move back in with you, he would tell you, but I would not wait for him too long if I were you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008):

I recently broke up with the love of my life. I work with him and have people constantly telling me how different he seems now. People break up for a reason and there is always one that wants it more than the other. Routine is a hard trend to break- move on sweetheart and try to find the perfect person who doesnt make you question your feelings. xx

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