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writes:I thank in advance anyone who replies here. I was working on a committee with my ex for the last year and it has not gone well. In my eyes( maybe not his) he has been rude and arrogant. A short time ago he told me that he did not think we should communicate at all except in the realm of this committee work. I think he has a new girlfriend so this would make sense. Working with him has been pretty awful so I quit the committee. I did so because he is immature and lacks insight into his behaviour and because he was turning others against me. Thing is, I miss the work I did no this committee but am more at more at peace knowing that I do not have to face this arrogant person. Should I try to go back or look for other ways I can contribute so I do not have to face this man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): It would be difficult to have to work closely with an ex when you do not get along. If you still feel committed to the comittee then maybe there are other ways you can do things for them without directly working with him. You said you were not comfortable working and dealing with him and he was pretty much ruining everything and putting people against you. That doesn't sound very healthy to me. On the other hand, it is a shame to let your ex distate what you do in life. If I were you I'd let whoever is in charge of the comittee hear how you feel so that they will understand why you left. Maybe there is something else you can get involved in to put your mind at ease and move on without having to face him? Good luck!
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