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writes: i have a long distance relationship we have no major issues but the problem is we never get to meet each other so its just phone calls off late he hes been complaining that i have no sexual feelings and he told me it will be a big problem once we get married. i am tired of this phone sex it doesn't excite me anymore so i have lost interest in it genuinely. will it affect our future? how do i convince him that i do have feelings he keeps tellin this all the time that i almost wonder whether i seriously have a problem. plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankx 4 the answers.i have met him face to face but we have never had sex i really dunno how this is gonna continue
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):
I think he could be right.
Did it one time excite you and not just because it was taboo or somewhat naughty?
Are you cooled off to the point where it isnt doing it at all for you? Not just that it works pretty well but then you want him physically and the phone pales in comparison- but that you just arent into phone much at all anymore.
So as soon as your seperation is over, dont jump right into marriage... give it some time. There might really be a problem here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I don't think i could carry on like this. It must be very frustrating on both parts. Is there no way you two can meet up, say have a weekend away, Have a nice meal etc. Will you still be carrying on like this IF you get married?? You two have to ask yourselves just what you both want out of this relationship. You only live once.
Best Wishes xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I too am in a long distance relationship. My husband and I are about 2000 miles apart and see each other only every 3-4 months. I also have tired of phone sex. Every once in a while we do have a little fun, but that is because I am willing to in order to make him happy. He also realizes that I don't like to do it so he doesn't pressure me and certainly doesn't give me guilt trips about it.
Have you ever met face to face and if so, have you had sex with him? And another thing, how long have you been with/talked to him?
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