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writes:Well i hope i can have some advice on this, i broke up from my B/F in october and have just recently got back with him, but i have said we need to solve some issues first.. i just want to tell u some things and then have some advice about what to do.. we have been together about 7 yrs ON/OFF throughout split up got together, he is 34 never been married and no kids. I have said to him that everytime we get back together we dont seem to move on and he never wants to commit, i have dicussed us living together as a start he says we can do this when we feel ready, but i am scared he is saying all this to get me back but then we dont move forward and i have wasted my time again, he is a lovely guy, who is never horrible and works very hard, maybe too hard!!! i love him very much and want to be with him but i feel after so many yrs im begining to resent the fact we have never had a normal reationship for yrs???? Any advice????
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reader, huneygyrl  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 He seems like a great guy from what you've mentioned however, it seems as if he have some issues he needs to resolve better thinking about a relationship. With all that, moving into together shouldn't even be a discussion if you're having these issues of a relationship that's been an off and on relationship and for 7 years.
7 years off and on? Throughout those years, haven't you observe anything strange or something that have been bothering him?
We can advise you on these issues nonetheless, you're grown own.
Good luck!!!
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