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writes:i would like to ask my question in another form..iam really having a hard time trying to know what exactly happened with me because i cant figure out . I DONT MEAN FOR VIOLATION. i been watching a movie with friend and i was on the bed ..he came over to my bed and sat facing me ..he was naked and his penis erected...i was ON MY CLOTH ..iam not sure of the distance was between us that time...he kept watching the movie on my bed ...despite he wasnt between my legs like how GAY do ..or he didnt stood up to show me a sign of attempt to do something ...so i kept staying on my bed ...however i had fears that his penis might have reached my back while he was on my bed...iam really not sure because while on the bed ..there was feeling of something touching my back (on cloth) ..but really not sure whether that was his penis or my immaginations.How could i know??..iam trying to figure out and remember the distance was between us in the bed and trying to remember that feel on my back ..but still couldnt know whether he touched me or not ???....and iam trying to know whether he Penetrated my back ...or all that was illusions?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): It seems that you are traumatised by this homoerotic experience, he kinda crossed the lines between friends! It's a bit weird, i thinkthat he is gay
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): The details don't really help....
This was two years ago, there was no anal or oral sex, so it doesn't matter what happened. Again, what is more interesting is why you are still bothered and depressed about this. Are you having problems with your sexuality, are men starting to turn you on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): It doesnt really make a lot of sence to just touch you with the tip of the shaft on your back,maybe a bit south would make more sence.It is strange though that he would come over and lift your blanket and do nothing at all to you,so in that view maybe something did happen.You cannot change it."Whats done is done."Mecbeth.Do you need counceling or did you just need to know.It makes more sence that he did it b/c he came to to your bed and lifted the sheet fully erect. and he must have poked you.Your with in inches of each other,hes erect. and he perpessly pressed onto your back,makes sence.You could have came to this conclusion your self if you layed out the facts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): It doesnt really make a lot of sence to just touch you with the tip of the shaft on your back,maybe a bit south would make more sence.It is strange though that he would come over and lift your blanket and do nothing at all to you,so in that view maybe something did happen.You cannot change it."Whats done is done."Mecbeth.Do you need counceling or did you just need to know.It makes more sence that he did it b/c he came to to your bed and lifted the sheet fully erect. and he must have poked you.Your with in inches of each other,hes erect. and he perpessly pressed onto your back,makes sence.You could have came to this conclusion your self if you layed out the facts.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 March 2009):
 WTF? So this happened several years ago? Where you drunk on drugs at the time? I think you have some deep seated psychological problems and if you can't remember the whole incident, maybe speaking to a psychiatrist will help you!
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reader, yas281981 +, writes (10 March 2009):
yas281981 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou all to your answers...however still didnt get what i want ...i would like to make really really clear as i wanted very straight forward answer..this guy came to my bed randomally and surprised me ...i didnt even show him any sign of something becasue even in that atmospher ( porn movie) ...i was using my bedcover so if i got aroused ..so that would be under cover ..because i never ever think of doing thing with a guy ...however i remember minutes before coming to my bed ..he told me that he got aroused by the movie...and i didnt care ..as i thought its just comments ..and i remember when he was in his bed ..he mentioned like ( we are all guys...so dont be shame of interacting with the movie infront of me ..and he meant to masterbate infront of each other) ....i didnt care either ...i would say i had masterbated but under my cover and he was on his bed ..and i was so careful not to show him ..how i was aroused and how i was masterbating ..i remember he also had tissues on the table ..it was next to us ...he showed me them and said to use it for cleaning ...i took one tissue to use it under my bedcover...all i wanted to know is that i was so careful not to show him myself and i STILL COULDNT KNOW what exactly brought him to my bed...because i DIDNT .AND i will never ask aguy to come to my bed...but the point is that ...i that i REALLY....REALLY DONT KNOW ..if he touched me in my back or not???..let alone if his package penetrated me... if 2 guys practising this .thier positions while acting are so clear ..i mean in my case i was laying and my legs facing him ...he came over to my bed and sat just next to my legs..so if he wanted to assault me he would have set my legs apart and sat between them ..so it would be clear to me that its attempt for assault..and i would have stoodup straight a way..but in his case he came over ...and at the beginning he sat next to my bedcover telling me how he got a roused...after a seconds..he raised the cover and sat just close to my legs....which means his package might reach me between legs...HE KEPT watching the movie as normal ..like nothing happen...we were watching like nothing happen..however i was horrifing as the distance i felt is close...and from that moment ..i started to have these doubts...whether he touched me???...whether he penetrated my back???...i SWEAR TO GOD..THAT i dont know whether he touched me or not ..its really hard for me that i always squeezing my mind try to remember the feeling of touch that i had ..just to imagine whether that was his penis ..or just imaginations...let alone whether he penetrated my back or not?....i really tried to give every single detail about that ..trying to find straight answer for what exactly happened with me because i DONT KNOW..becasue iam really really sad and depressed... and by the way...he left the country 2 years ago (he was foreign student)...so i couldnt ask him of what confusing me...
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 March 2009):
This is the most unclear post I have read so far on this site. Can you give us some background to this situation?
You chose to be in bed with a naked man with an erection! Surly at that point you could have said something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): Does it really matter? If you were uncomfortable with him being naked and close then you should have said so or got up and left the room.I don't think you can call a possible brief touch with cloth between you a violation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): Your not very clear on the sercomstances,like why was he naked on your bed.Did you know he would be doing that,or was it random.Was it a gay,or sexual movie for him to become erect.Were you guys possably experimenting or something.All I know is that I wouldnt have any of my guy friends on my bed nude unless I wanted something to come from that.If someone was pressing against you with there finger for exampe would you not know that they were doing that.So in the same way if someone was puting there package against you would you not know that it was there,I think it did happen b/c it just seems like something like that would happen in that kind of atmospher.Ask your friend about it wouldnt he know what happened.Future wise give more details b/c then we can give a staight answer to you with less guessing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): Where you high?? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm serious! If he has penetrated you, I'm pretty sure you would know it! No, I'm positive you would know it!!!!! From your description, it is unclear what was going on!
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