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writes:hey this question is for guys who has kids. what would you do if your baby momma took your daughter or son(your first born) to another country, she tells you is only for a year but the year passes and your child is still away from you then after a year passes she tells every month she bringing your child this day and that day but it never happens, then she tells you that they both going to another state but when she gets there and calls you to tell you she got there safe and you ask for your child she says she left her with her mom in the first place that she left to so basically she just be lieing to you. what would you do as a father and also your name is not on the birth certificate, what would you do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): The first thing to do is talk to a lawyer and have the courts order a DNA test. She will have to comply or she's breaking court order and the courts don't like that.
This is so that your identity as the child's father can be proven as there is like a one in a billion chance that the DNA test would be wrong.
Once that is done you can go for joint custody and as long as you aren't doing drugs or any criminal activities or have a criminal history, then I don't see why it wouldn't be granted even though courts mostly favour the mother in such court cases.
Question, why is your name not in the birth certificate anyway? That should have been one of the first tings you even thought of doing when the baby was born. That was a dumb mistake on your part and you are paying the price for that now, eh?
I hope things work out for you. So get yourself a lawyer and get yourself going.
Flynn 24
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