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B/f smells so bad "down there" I almost gag!

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Question - (11 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello all,

My problem is simple. My boyfriend smells horrendously bad "down there" and I can barely give him a blow job without gagging. I usually just breath through my mouth but I would prefer my nose (its just easier that way).

Anywho, it still smells after a shower, after cloths are washed and I am puzzled to why this is. Is that just his natural smell and there is no changing that? Do I just have to suck it up?

Thanks to anyone who answers.

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A male reader, artian United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2009):

artian agony auntIt could be something simple like Balantitis. That is a hygiene problem that can arise from taking antibiotics or simply not washing down there everyday.

I am not a Doctor so I agree he should go and see one and get it ruled out and put both your minds to rest.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntSome guys just smell a little musky down there.

If he still has his foreskin, he needs to completely pull it back and wash wash wash under it.

If he's circumcised (as most American lads are), then he needs to see his family doctor. Usually, a bad smell is a sign of some sort of infection. It's probably not an STD, as you would most likely be seeing visible symptoms, but I would still refrain from oral or unprotected sex (personally, any sex) until he gets checked out.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

Does he wash himself with soap all throughout that area in the shower? Try it right after he does this, and if he still smells, then there's definitely something wrong with him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

I probably should have mentioned that we haven't had sex yet. And I know its not an STD because he is still a virgin.

I have already told him about it. So he already knows.

It has been this way for, maybe a month or so. Is it possible for these things to last so long without resolving themselves?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

Sounds like a bacterial infection. Not that big of a deal, but you will soon be smelling that way also. You both need to go to the doctor's office and get some antibiotics. If this is something that you are afraid to talk to him about because you do not want to hurt his feelings, then you go first and tell him that you noticed a smell or discharge coming from you and that the doctor said he needed to be seen also so that you do not keep giving it back and forth to one another. Again, it is not an STD and it is no big deal, but you do want to get it taken care of one way or another since it is obviously not enjoyable and is interfering with your sex life.

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