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B/f says I need to be more sexy

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Question - (16 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2009)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi,

My boyfriend says I am the most beautiful girl he has ever seen, except I need to be more sexy...what does this mean?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

It means he is being an idiot and that if he cared about you he would ensure you felt sexy - and that you didn't have to pass some kind of 'sexy' test. Next time he says something like that tell him "Hey thats strange because this guy behind me in a queue told me he thought I looked really sexy - I was really cheered up by it. So... I don't know what you mean?" That should shut him up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

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Hi,

I've asked him to explain what he means because he's referred to other girls as sexy before (and in my opinion they were ugly bimboes except for their big boobs and long legs)and he just gets all angry at me and says don't worry about it...I've told him it makes me feel really unattractive when I hear this, which makes him even angrier...I feel unattractive when I hear it because I don't have big boobs, long legs, and I don't dress slutty...I'm also a very private person and don't like to flaunt myself (and I'm also still a virgin)...He often tells me I'm beautiful, and I'm cute, but not sexy...what does he expect from me? help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

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Hi,

I've asked him to explain what he means because he's referred to other girls as sexy before (and in my opinion they were ugly bimboes except for their big boobs and long legs)and he just gets all angry at me and says don't worry about it...I've told him it makes me feel really unattractive when I hear this, which makes him even angrier...I feel unattractive when I hear it because I don't have big boobs, long legs, and I don't dress slutty...I'm also a very private person and don't like to flaunt myself (and I'm also still a virgin)...He often tells me I'm beautiful, and I'm cute, but not sexy...what does he expect from me? help!

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