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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and I love him a lot, but some things he do. leave me thinking is he the one for me. I know that he watch porn when im in school, cuz I go to school out of state. I don't have no problem with him watching it, but I don't understand why he take pictures of the porn he watch and save them to him phone. I also found out that he be on the message chat and when I asked him about both he just say he do not no why he do it, then he say that he only get on the message chat when he be at work bord. the only reason why im up set is cuz, he's 25 years old and he don't no why he do the things he do. I always tell him that you just don't do things for no reason, you do things for a reason. do you think im rong for getting up set? wat do you think about the situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): For what it's worth, I don't think you are wrong for being upset. If the best answer he has for his online chats is "I don't know," or "I'm bored," then he obviously doesn't respect you or your relationship. If you are having doubts about him, listen to those feelings! Don't wake up 10 years from now and wonder why you married him. Since asking him why he did it didn't work, try asking him if he even wants to be with you, and go from there. Don't put up with his indifferent attitude; either he wants to really commit to you and be in this relationship, or you should break up with him and move on to someone else who does.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 Here is some suggestion.
1. First you share porn film with him. First you yourself learn what particularly you feel, seeing porn with your personally chosen friend.? Work out some reason for liking and disliking also. And, then discuss with him in terms of reason. It is always good, if emotion be shaped by reason. Feeling must follow reason.
2.I appreciate your saying,"I always tell him that you just don't do things for no reason, you do things for a reason. do you think im rong for getting up set? wat do you think about the situation?"
3 Your logic is sound. It is good to think in terms of reason, and best to do for reason. Because all philosophers hold the supremacy of reason.
4. Here it is presented in formula---If one follow reason with consistency, then all the best follow as a matter of simple natural law.
ALL THE BEST.
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