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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hii have been seeing this chap for almost four months and i know he loves me dearly of that i have no dout, recently we had our first row that uncovered the unmanagability in his life,he said the argument started due to stress as he has been spending time with me and not his work comittments. he is a real smart man and is working on a important project. as a result of our argument he has asked that we postpone seeing one and other for five weeks until he meets his dead line and structures his work life, i had no issue with this as i was angry ,now i have resentment and feel as though i am being punished for his lack of ability to manage his work load. he has expressed the disire to spend his life with me and asks that i be paitent(my heart i am finding difficult to remain open). he is in regular contact and i have no doubts that i am the one. am i being selfish that i want him to be able to have balance at this moment? i have asked myself if he cant have it now can he ever. thank you for reading Reply to this Question
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