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anonymous
writes:Dear Auntys,Please can you give your opinions? My boyfreind has not been affectionate of late and I only see him when he is tired. I recently moaned that he could of kissed me before goin to sleep and he started arguing calling me horrendous names when just a kiss would of been good. He never shows much affection, the sex is getting rarer and for a while now he hasnt said he loves me . I have been fed up and am taking medication, so when we rowed he started telling me I was a freak and not right in the head, now coming from someone who also takes medication I thought that was nasty. anyway he has now ignored me for three days do you think he is having an affair or looking to end it with me ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012): Thank you for taking time to reply. He has done this before but I thought we were past all that. I do feel pushed out of his life and what he doesn't get is that its that that is depressing me. I dont understand him, and i always have this feeling i cant shake that he is up to no good. we've been together 7 years and he is older than me , so i never expected the ignoring thing from someone his age . he knows if he does this i'll get stronger the longer he ignores me and i wish i could tell him to get lost. its as if he isnt sure after all this time as to wether he wants me or not . .
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 June 2012):
 Well, it's hard to say what is going on in his head, but it does seem like he is pushing you away, hoping that the more cruel he is the bigger the chance is that YOU will tell him to take a hike.
Is he having trouble at work and taking it out on you at home?Seems to me that he is using you for his punching bag and that YOU are taking the punches.. I have to ask why.
Also bringing up his short coming as you go to bed might not be the best time to do so. NOT that it is an excuse for his abusive behavior.
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