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writes:i divorced with my husband because he was cheating on me with another woman. I never knew that he transmitted an infection to me.I am in a relationship with another man now for 1 year. Everything was fine till one day he saw symptoms of sti, he then went to check up, and they told him he has a chlamydia. That means i have it too, but i never had any symptoms. My partner thinks that i was cheating on him with someone else, while he was away. But i never did that. He is upset with me and he is always blaming me and commenting that i was sleeping with somebody else. It really hurts me. I love him loads and don't want to loose him. I asked him to talk about that, but he doesn't want. What shall i do?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 Educate him on chlamydia and go to the doctor with him to tell him how it can be spread. That you got it from your exhusband, didn't have the symptoms, and have given it to him,
Get YOURSELF tested though!! If you have it, it could sterilize you. You need to get tested and get treatment for it. But until then, just each him how the STI is spread, and make him understand. He's probably just freaked out and scared right now, and needs time to come to terms with it. Chlamydia for men isn't harmful, it's just a shock to him. He needs time to absorb the fact and deal with it, unfortunately he is taking it out on you. Set him straight!!
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