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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: attracted to mr. wrong!!!!! i'm a christian and i believe that i'm in a testing ground because i live around with some one whom is older than me and i know that i'm attracted to him even though i know that i can never have him.we occationaly meet without planning to meet but than when ever we meet he's got this weard look that tells me a different story about himself. i'm scared to wanna talk to him and to confront him that he's manners and his behaviour before me is very luring and that i get the wrong impression when he's near or around me......... please help me to overcome my fears of letting him go and accepting the fact that all man come for one thing and that if its true that they come fo sex? i do not wanna have to do anything with him.......what should i do?what should i say to him when i meet him next?should i just ignore the fact that he even exists?how do i tell myself that he is not attracted to me the way i'm attracted to him?eargely waiting for any advice or anything, luvly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010): is he married
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): Hey,
Don't talk to him. At all. Remove him from your phone book and maybe from any social sites you've befriended him on. If you KNOW that he is bad and may ruin things your strongly believe in what is the point in meeting up with him? Why would you let one person ruin a whole lifestyle that you have? I do believe that the only reason he is meeting you is to have sex. Lots of guys have a fascination about trying to "swipe the V card" (or take a good girl's virginity) because it is somewhat of a game. I'm telling you that you WILL end up broken and will regret any sexual contact with him.
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