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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I need and want a good man to settle down with...etc but every time i meet one that wants the same i get scared and end up with an asshole again. Assholes say they want kids, fam...all that stuff, but LATER, nice guys give me this vibe that they want it NOW! i really want to break the cycle and stop letting assholes hurt me and allow a nice guy in my life but i have no idea how to do that. I dont even understand why i do that....why am i so drawn to assholes and only drawn to nice guys on the rebound just to get scared when they start talking about the same things that i want? thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): The problem with rebounds is that girls always go for the nice guy that they're not really interested in, but they need to feel good after what they've been through with their last boyfriend, breaking the cycle is easy, next time you break up with someone, wait til you are over them before you start dating again.
That way you'll find a guy who has a nice balance of the excitement that girl's get from badboys but will also be a nice guy.
Also you'll being doing us nice guys a favour by not just hooking up with us to make yourself feel better after being treated badly by your ex.
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