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writes: Hi there,At bit of a loose end really here. Lots of advice needed please.I was seeing a guy for about 2 mths not sure if we still are. Everything was great we were dating and always had loads to talk about, he was loving and caring. We slept together after about a month, everything good there also.He told me I was amazing, introduced me to all his friends and said he hadn't met anyone in a long time that he had wanted to introduce to anyone including family and friends.Then it all seemed to go backward when I asked where we were at in the relationship. I had had a few drinks. He said it was too soon to discuss it, so I backed off and didn't bring it up again. We went out the next evening and everything seemed to be fine. We had a concert to attend the next week as we already had tickets, so we went to that had fun, then since then he hasn't called me in person, in two weeks, we have just texted each other. I have not nagged and asked why he hasn't bothered to call but I do feel it's rather weird as we haven't seen each other in this time either and he hasn't asked me out again. The texts have just more or less said what we have both been up to and he either sends me one or I send him one. What do you think I should do, as he wanted to meet my parents and everything and said I was so great and now I feel like he didn't mean anything he said, should I just not contact him and give him the space to decide what he wants to do? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): Why don't you contact him, arrange to meet and have a chat and get him to explain just what is going on. Say you are too old to be treat like a kid and if he is backing off then fine, just let you know what he wants. It is a two way street, so you have your say to. It all isn't just up to him. Some men are definately on another planet from us, but only some, we can't tar them all with the same brush.
Take care.
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