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Are women usually sensative about men messing with their breasts? Are there certain times that are better than others?

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Question - (8 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2008)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

Are women usually sensitive about men messing with their breasts? Are there certain times that are better than others? My wife always acts like she doesn't want them messed with but it seems like when she gets in the mood its ok but only for a short time until she gets off.

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A male reader, milker United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2008):

Must admit I do seem to have a similar problem. I think that the trouble is that breasts are just below eye level and are such an enticing pair of soft but firm globes that is a hard job to keep my hands off. Of course too much unwanted touching or handling would be quite off putting for a woman I would think. Unfortunately even from a young age there are all these gorgeous girls and women out there that want men and women to see, show off and entice people to these lovely assets. Well they must be to wear the uplifting sexy bras and low tops which show everyone up to about half of the goodies. I say unfortunately although obviously it is fantastic to see them, but it does promote a mind blowing problem to all the males that they can see but not touch. Arghhh. Haha.I think that the way to approach it is to show interest on occasions and the rest of the time to absorb the lovely view and let your mind enjoy the wind up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

I am a bit sensitive about my boobs too, mainly because I don't like the way they look. I only tend to let my boyfriend 'fondle them' when we are being passionate but sometimes he is a bit too rough and that puts me off, they aren't squeeze toys! How would you feel if I squeezed your balls that hard? I'm less bothered about it over clothes but bare is a different thing. Perhaps you are a bit too rough and thats why she doesn't let you do it for a long time? Have you asked her? xxx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

If my husband came up and grabbed my boobs I would be pissed off.

Are you always trying to get them? Does she think you like them more than her?

You have to respect a woman's body.

Obviously when in the mood, being stroked in sensitive places like breasts thighs and everywhere is a turn on. But other times it can be painful and degrading.

If you are confused about what she likes and don't likes, why don't you ask her?

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

Well, it seems every woman is different, you are unlucky in that you seem to derive great pleasure from your wife's breasts but she does not - unless she's in the mood for sex. She sounds a little selfish to me but, speaking personally, most women are happy to be fondled but, your one doesn't! Nothing much you can do about that I'm afraid!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

I think that I am the same way. I have to be in the mood. If he were to just touch them out of nowhere I might feel violated or something.

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